Find a comfy spot, just the two of you.
The floor’s best, bed also works well.
Clear the space, dim the lights, let the world wait.
The heart of um:i – the action cards
They come in 3 phases. You can play just one, or move through all three.
Basically, 3 games in 1:
1. Break the Ice
Build a connection.
Start with slow touches, gentle curiosity, soft closeness.
2. Getting Closer
Kissing, touching, undressing.
It gets spicy.
3. Suddenly Wonderful
The name says it all.
Intimate & explicit.
Other cards in the deck
Twist cards
They can sneak in anytime.
Body cards
Activated by the action cards – they point to random spots on the body.
Who cards
Help decide who leads.
For each action, you both secretly choose:
Do you want to give, receive – or skip?
And here’s how it flows
- Draw 5 action cards. Place them face down between you.
- Flip them one by one. For each, both of you pick in secret: give, receive, or skip?
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Reveal:
• Match? Dive in.
• Tie? Hold it for later – maybe someone shifts.
• Skip? Toss it.
- Played them all? Draw new ones.
Play through the deck – or drop the rules and follow the moment.
