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  • Try something new in bed.

  • A new way to explore each other.

  • One game. New every time you play.

  • Learn what you like.

  • Be desired & connected.

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um:i - Playdate for two

€49,00
€49,00
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🛏️ New kind of sex game for couples or dating

👩‍❤️‍👨 A totally new way to explore each other’s desires

🚫 Not another question-and-answer game

🏳️‍🌈 For all genders and all bodies

💝 Perfect gift idea for couples

✨ Premium design, quality and artful illustrations

🐻 Born in Berlin, made in Germany in limited batches

⏰ On its way to you in 1–2 working days

Free shipping in 🇩🇪
14 days to return – no questions asked

What is it?

A new kind of sex game – physical, playful, and full of little sparks. You decide: who gives? Who receives? Or if you skip.

What’s new?

No endless talking, no performance – just 3 gentle phases that invite you to try, touch & discover in your rhythm.

For whom?

For long-term lovers, first dates, sneaky flings, FWB, question marks – everyone who wants to feel closer. For all genders and all sexualities.

What’s the point?

To learn what you like. To feel seen, desired, and connected. Think slow sex that lasts all evening. Breaking scripts, staying present. Situational, not set in stone. And full of pleasure, play, and surprise.

How to play?

Find a comfy spot, just the two of you.

The floor’s best, bed also works well.
Clear the space, dim the lights, let the world wait.


The heart of um:i – the action cards

They come in 3 phases. You can play just one, or move through all three.
Basically, 3 games in 1:

1. Break the Ice

Build a connection.
Start with slow touches, gentle curiosity, soft closeness.

2. Getting Closer

Kissing, touching, undressing.
It gets spicy.

3. Suddenly Wonderful

The name says it all.
Intimate & explicit.


Other cards in the deck

Twist cards
They can sneak in anytime.

Body cards
Activated by the action cards – they point to random spots on the body.

Who cards
Help decide who leads.
For each action, you both secretly choose:
Do you want to give, receive – or skip?


And here’s how it flows

  1. Draw 5 action cards. Place them face down between you.
  2. Flip them one by one. For each, both of you pick in secret: give, receive, or skip?
  3. Reveal:
    Match? Dive in.
    Tie? Hold it for later – maybe someone shifts.
    Skip? Toss it.
  4. Played them all? Draw new ones.

Play through the deck – or drop the rules and follow the moment.

How to play?
How is um:i not like the others?

um:i

  • Try, explore, feel
  • Deep and spicy
  • Creative, open-ended ideas
  • No cringe, no pressure
  • Made for everyone
  • Looks and feels beautiful

Other games

  • Just talk endlessly
  • Either serious or sexy – never both
  • Structured, repetitive, boring
  • Feels like a therapy session
  • Made for straight, norm couples
  • Poor design
Why you'll love it
  • Playfully guides you toward deeper connection, without pressure! 
  • Always new—no two rounds are the same
  • ⁠Beautifully designed: an art piece for your shelf
  • Cards that help when words get stuck
  • ⁠Surprising ideas, gentle dares, never cringe
  • ⁠Truly inclusive: for every body, every desire
  • ⁠Discover through doing, not just talking
  • Deep and spicy at your pace
  • Made to feel, not to perform
What’s inside?
  • 54 Action- and 37 Body cards to spark physical exploration
  • 10 Who cards (5 each) to negotiate who takes on the action
  • 6 Twist cards for unexpected fun

107 cards: 70 x 120 mm, FSC certified material (350 g/m2), 1 box: 128x78x58 mm, 1 playbook: 207x357 mm (unfolded), 69x119 (folded)
What’s inside?
Who made this?

Dreamed up by two Berlin-based founders, both systemic coaches, rooted in the art of human connection and newly drawn to the depths of intimacy.

Brought to life by a brilliantly talented young designer, a wordsmith who always gets the tone just right, and an illustrator who studied every inch of the human body to turn it into something uniquely um:i.

Designed and illustrated with love. Printed locally in small batches.

Come say hi at our Berlin markets! Or if you have any questions, feedback, or want to know more about our team, drop us a message on Insta.

Who made this?
Where to find us offline?

You’ll find um:i in a selection of beautifully curated shops across Germany and hopefully in many more soon.

In Berlin, you’ll spot us at

In Hamburg

In Leipzig

In Frankfurt

In Düsseldorf & Dortmund

In Aachen

And also in Bern (CH)

You're a shop owner and curious about um:i? Just drop us a line at hello@umi.cards or order directly on Faire.

  • 1 deck, but 3 games in one.

    And endless ways to play.

  • Actions in 3 Phases.

  • You choose who takes the lead.

  • Discover each other’s body.

Customer Reviews

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Jannik & Emelie

It´s a fun game that invites you to really sit down and get emotionally and sensually invested in your partner. We had lots of fun with it and got to try new things.
Would be cool to have different color schemes.
It sometimes takes a long time and the cards are very big so shuffling gets difficult for smaller hands. Because cards appear at random, it sometimes leaves you with very limited options to choose.

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Konstantin

Just a great game! Love the concept and that's not just a simple "let's get naked" sex game. It has emotional depth, creates a nice tension, and is just a lot of fun. I also ordered one as a present for friends.

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Christine

Beautifully designed and full of intention. Even after 18 years as a couple, um:i brought fresh connection and lightness into our relationship. Highly recommended for couples at any stage – this little box truly holds real value.

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Sarah

Love it!🫶🏻 Turns every date into a little party🎈

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Lena

It is fun an beautifully designed! (:
Thank you

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