🛏️ New kind of intimacy game for couples or dating
👩❤️👨 A totally new way to explore each other’s desires
🚫 Not another question-and-answer game
🏳️🌈 For all genders and all bodies
💝 Perfect gift idea for couples
✨ Premium design, quality and artful illustrations
🐻 Born in Berlin, made in Germany in limited batches
⏰ On its way to you in 1–2 working days
More than a game.
A playful invitation to get closer – physically, emotionally, curiously. um:i is a guided experience to tune into each other’s needs, uncover hidden desires, and shape an evening that feels open, warm, and full of little discoveries.
This easy-to-play card deck is designed to spark real connection, sensual curiosity, and joyful intimacy. Whether you're just getting to know each other or rediscovering what you love – um:i helps you break free from old patterns and turn desires into shared moments. Dive into playful exploration, and turn desires into action. No pressure, just gentle guidance, laughter, and the freedom to explore what might suddenly feel wonderful.
Every card is an opening – to try something new, to listen, to feel. No rules, just the soft structure to let something real unfold. Many couples report that um:i helped them discover needs – both their own and their partner’s – they hadn’t been aware of before.
Find a comfy spot, just the two of you. The floor’s best, bed also works well. Clear the space, dim the lights, let the world wait.
The heart of um:i – the action cards
They come in 3 phases. You can play just one, or move through all three.
Basically, 3 games in 1:
Other cards in the deck
Twist cards
They can sneak in anytime.
Body cards
Activated by the action cards – they point to random spots on the body.
Who cards
Help decide who leads.
For each action, you both secretly choose: Do you want to give, receive, or skip?
And here’s how it flows
Play through the deck or drop the rules and follow the moment.
Dreamed up by two Berlin-based founders, both systemic coaches, rooted in the art of human connection and newly drawn to the depths of intimacy.
Brought to life by a brilliantly talented young designer, a wordsmith who always gets the tone just right, and an illustrator who studied every inch of the human body to turn it into something uniquely um:i.
Designed and illustrated with love. Printed locally in small batches.
Come say hi at our Berlin markets! Or if you have any questions, feedback, or want to know more about our team, drop us a message on Insta.
You’ll find um:i in a selection of beautifully curated shops across Germany and hopefully in many more soon.
In Berlin, you’ll spot us at
In Hamburg
In Leipzig
In Düsseldorf & Dortmund
In Aachen
In Bern (CH)
In Basel (CH)
In Tallinn (EST)
In Brussels (BEL)
You're a shop owner and curious about um:i? Just drop us a line at [email protected] or order directly on Faire.
